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Manipulation 101

On her 11 Week Birthday, Claire decided to turn to Mr. Elephant for a bit of advice on how to manipulate her mommy and daddy into giving her what she wants.

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First, she tells him she’ll listen closely to whatever he has to say.
“Go ahead, tell me all you know…”

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Claire is clearly shocked at what she hears. “Surely Mr. Elephant is joking!
There’s no way I could do that to my sweet parents! You’ve got to be kidding!”

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She decides to listen to Mr. Elephant and give it a try. “Here’s my very best pouty face.
Is my lip stuck out far enough?”

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She realizes that mommy and daddy now just laugh at her pitiful little pout.
“You’re right, Mr. Elephant - that wasn’t enough.
Maybe if I just scream at the top of my lungs they’ll bend to my wishes….” :)

Don’t let her sweet pouty face fool you - this girl is a smart one and has quickly figured out that mommy and daddy aren’t fans of her crying and if she does it long enough, she might just get what she wants.  After sleeping for 5-6 hours straight for about 5 nights in a row, she decided to try going back to just 3 hours stretches. After some heart-breaking crying, daddy came to the rescue and soothed her back to sleep. BUT - the important thing to note is that she slept for another 2 hours without needing to eat, proving that the little munchkin just likes to snack a bit more than necessary!


Week Ten Recap

The 2 1/2 month mark brings about even more “firsts” for Claire. After an excellent night of sleep (due to the shots), we took a family trip to the UNC Campus in Chapel Hill for a picnic and some sightseeing. Claire dressed the part, showing off her Tarheels onesie and matching hair bow. We had lunch near the amphitheater and then walked up and down Franklin street, popping in a shop or two. The weather was just perfect and Claire enjoyed being outside as usual. Below is a picture I snapped of a super alert Wiggles in the car on the way to Chapel Hill and a self family portrait.

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When we got home, Claire took a nap and woke up ready to play! She entertained her mommy and daddy by “talking” and smiling profusely underneath her jungle gym. I must have taken dozens of pictures, hoping to capture that sweet smile. Below is one of my favorites, and there are plenty more “faces of Claire” in the Nine and Ten Week Photo Gallery.

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Sunday was a busy day. Claire slept through church services in mommy’s lap and tried to be a good girl and let some friends hold her, but was ready to get home and have some lunch! That evening we took Claire to her first Durham Bulls baseball game, along with friends Trey, Sabrina and Carter. Eric and I can remember going along to Carter’s first game about 2 years ago and found it ironic that WE were the ones with a baby this time. Claire did absolutely wonderful, sleeping on her daddy’s chest in the Baby Bjorn and waking up to charm us with her precious smiles. Unfortunately, I had forgotten to charge the camera battery, but we borrowed Sabrina’s camera and captured some of her best expressions yet - I’ll post them soon. I managed to get one picture of her on the way to Durham before the camera gave out - look at her all dolled up in the cute hat (borrowed from Caleigh) and adorable shoes (thanks, Aunt Beth!).

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On Tuesday my friend Karen and her son Jack came over for lunch. I couldn’t believe how big Jack has gotten over the past couple of months. He’s a smart boy - knew exactly where to find all the toys in the nursery! I was happy to see some of them getting some use, Claire doesn’t care for too many of them just yet as she prefers munching on her hands. :) The hope was to capture several cute photos of the two kiddos meeting for the first time, but they had other plans! We managed to get the one below, but you can tell Jack is dying to get down and play and Claire is ready for a nap!

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 Claire had a really good 10th week during the day. Her fussing was less than usual and the smiling and cooing was at an all time high. I wish I could say the nights were just as good, but she was waking up quite often and not sleeping as well as she had before. BUT - I’ve been desperately trying different “routines” trying to find what works best for her and I think I may have figured it out. For the past two nights she’s slept 5 1/2 - 6 hours, woke up to feed, then went back down for 2 1/2 - 4 hours. However, Claire has a habit of being unpredictable, so this may be a fluke. Her mommy is desperately hoping it’s not. :)

So that’s all for now, be sure to check out the new Nine and Ten Week Photo Gallery.


Happy 2 Month (+1 week) B/D!

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Wow! We haven’t really posted much on Claire’s growth since before our Arkansas trip and it’s amazing just how much she’s changed. She celebrated her 2 month birthday last Friday, and today marks 9 weeks that we’ve been blessed to have her in our life. Here’s the scoop on our little one:

Likes/Dislikes: Claire continues to love being swaddled and LOUD static white noise. Many of you know that she had her own personal hairdryer that stayed on all night (on the cold setting). Well, that lasted about 2 weeks before the hair dryer said “enough is enough” and died. After a couple of sleepless nights, we finally came up with a (safer) alternative. I bought a mp3 of a hairdryer sound on iTunes and Eric edited it so it would loop continuously . We then loaded up on her iPod and now play it at a deafening level each night. We’re still able to see and hear her on the video monitor, so all is good.

Up until just a few days ago, Claire was not a fan of pacifiers, the swing, or the vibrating Papsan chair. But all that has changed now! She takes a pacifier - preferably the NUK brand, but will take the others as well - and is learning to keep it in. She has sat peacefully and taken several naps in both the swing and the chair, giving her mommy the ability to work while keeping a close eye on her.

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She also loves being outdoors. We take at least one walk a day, often many more. The back porch has also become a favorite spot. I’m not sure if it’s the change in temperature or what, but it’s almost a given that going outdoors will soothe her when she’s fussy.

Bedtime: We started a bedtime routine the night we got back from AR. We try to start around 8 pm, but sometimes she demands a bit earlier or later. We start with a warm bath which we discovered is easier to do with her bathtub on the kitchen sink instead of in the bathroom (our poor backs!). Miss Claire is super spoiled - she gets a warm towel, fresh out of the dryer each night. After the bath, Daddy dries her off , wraps her in a blanket, and hands her to Mommy for feeding and lullabies. When she’s good and full, her spoiling continues with a massage with bedtime lotion from the both of us. After the massage, she sucks on her pacifier while we read her a story or two. And then comes what Daddy calls “dropping the bomb”…without fail, she loads up a diaper every night during story time. Considering that the diaper doesn’t always win, Mommy has finally gotten wise and demanded that Daddy hold her every other night for stories. :) After a clean diaper, we swaddle her up and most of the time she goes down for the night without too much of a fuss. She’s a big girl in that she can be put in her crib while sleepy, but not completely out, and fall asleep by herself. And by herself I mean with the hairdryer noise. :)

Growth: At her one month doctor’s appointment, Claire weighed 8 lbs, 5 oz and measured 22 1/2 inches long. That put her in the 25th percentile for weight and the 90th percentile for height. What a long, skinny baby! Yesterday was her two month appointment and she weighed 9 lbs, 30z and was still 22 1/2 inches long. Most likely the 1 month length measurement was a bit off. She’s now in the 30th percentile for weight and the 52nd for length. Oh - and her head is measuring consistently around the 50th percentile. Strange that they measure that…

She also got her first round of shots yesterday - three to be exact. She did wonderfully and Mommy and Daddy didn’t shed a tear. :) She hasn’t shown any side effects other than being very sleepy today.

Temperament: Claire is still a fussy baby, but is growing out of some of it. The doctor blames gas pains so we try like crazy to keep that to a minimum. I feed her upright, burp her every 4 minutes, feed her “dessert” (Mylicon) and keep her upright for 20 minutes after each meal. This is quite a chore, especially during the late night feedings. She’s the fussiest between 5-7 pm which I’ve often heard referred to as happy hour for babies. Also, she has her good days and her bad days - just like the rest of us. BUT - it’s amazing how you forget about the crying fits when she’s smiling and cooing at you. :)

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Most importantly, she’s a healthy baby and we continue to feel extremely blessed. I think that’s all for now…make sure to check out the 7 and 8 week photo gallery!


Jungle Gym Fun

Claire is showing so much personality these days! She “talks”, smiles and wiggles (hence her nickname) like crazy! Her favorite toys (other than mommy and daddy) are Mr. Elephant and the rain forest jungle gym. Today she was especially excited about playing under her jungle gym so I grabbed the camera and shot this short video clip. Not only do you see her playing, you also get a yawn and a few sneezes! :)


Daddy’s First Bottle!!

So the day FINALLY came where I could feed baby Wiggles. Up to this point, Mom’s had all the fun and, although it’s been good to see Momma and baby having their time together, it’s been a little frustrating not getting to join in on the bonding time.

We decided to use some of Colleen’s stored breast milk that she has been feverishly trying to store up for when we have to start dropping Claire off at the daycare. Unfortunately, we didn’t have our camera so Colleen snapped some pictures using my cell phone. They’re not the greatest quality but at least you get to see Daddy in action!!

Claire was a little confused to begin with because usually when I hold her in that position, I’m trying to stuff a pacifier in her mouth. She figures out pretty quick that she could suck on that thing forever and nothing would come out, so she spits it out and gets pissy. But this time, there was something coming out of it (the bottle), but she was pretty set that I was trying to trick her. She fought it off for a while, but after squeezing a little milk on her lips she figured out that her efforts would be rewarded :) She still seemed to have a puzzled look on her face as to how she was being held by Daddy and being fed at the same time.

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You can check out more pictures by going to our website and clicking on the photo albums over on the right hand side of the page


Play Date

Eric shares an office with two other Healthful Living/PE teachers - Julie and Matt. They both had daughters about 3 months before Claire was born and there had been talk all summer long of arranging a “play date” for the three of them.

Two weekends ago (I know, I’m way behind in posting…) we went to Julie and her husband Dan’s house for the first official meeting. Their daughter, Callie, was there along with Matt, his wife, Janice, and their daughter, Maddie. The babies ate, fussed some and napped here and there while the grown-ups traded stories and advice. The kiddos didn’t have much to do with one another just yet, but hopefully we’ll all meet up again soon when they’re a bit more interactive.

Here’s a photo of the three (L to R: Claire, Callie and Maddie). As you can see, Claire is a lot smaller than the other two, but is actually about 1/2 inch longer than Callie!

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Beach Weekend

We took advantage of the last weekend before Eric started back to work (teacher work days) and I began work from home by spending some time with family at the beach. We never made it to the shore, but enjoyed the scenery from the house. Claire LOVED swinging outside on the porch and made it quite clear that she thinks the beach is where she belongs! She even went 7 hours between feedings on Friday night, sleeping for a straight 5 hours . Yay!

Saturday we went on another shopping adventure with Aunt Nancy and Cousin Cash. We drove to Jacksonville and hit up a few stores and ate lunch at the Olive Garden. That would be the “nice” restaurant where Claire decided to stain her clothes, a blanket, and my shirt and shorts. :)

Saturday evening Nan cooked hamburgers (we’ll pretend the fire coming from the grill didn’t happen…) and Uncle Jay and Grandpa joined us for dinner. Cash had a good time wheeling around on the back porch while Claire continued sleeping in her carrier.

We look forward to going back soon, especially since we missed seeing Eric’s mom who is still in AR with his grandpa.

Here are a couple of photos from the weekend - more are found in the NEW 7 and 8 week gallery that I finally got uploaded.

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Lovin’ Mr. Elephant

Claire has recently switched her view about the changing table. What used to be considered the torture table (in her mind, anyways), has now become a favorite spot. And who do we have to thank? Why Mr. Elephant, of course! A gift from my friend Melissa, Mr. Elephant is the source of tons (no pun intended…) of fun for the Wiggles. She talks and smiles at him, telling him all her secrets, I’m sure. Here is a video of her playing with her new best friend.


Video: Meeting Poppy

Okay, so it’s not an official name for my dad just yet. In fact, I don’t even think he knows about it. But - we’ll see if it sticks. :) Here’s the short video clip I took of him and Claire meeting for the first time. It’s amazing just how much she’s changed over the past couple of weeks - this video doesn’t even look like her now!



AR Part III: Friends

So the list of people Claire met for the first time during our trip to Arkansas just keeps going. We were lucky to visit with so many people in such a short time and really enjoyed catching up with friends we don’t see often.

We had dinner with Robert, Aerren and Caleigh on Tuesday night. Claire started off a bit fussy, but ended up snoozing away in the sling while we all had a good visit. Aerren and I chatted in the kitchen while Eric, Robert and Caleigh played in the living room and caught some baseball on the TV. After a yummy spaghetti meal, complete with brownie and ice cream for dessert, Claire woke up and showed off her Razorback jersey onesie, on loan from Caleigh. The Cal was in total awe of Claire and we’re told she now has an obsession with baby dolls! BTW, Caleigh was clothed for most of the visit, but spaghetti is messy! :)

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Wednesday evening we met up with Ben and Erin Keifer and their 3 boys for dinner at the Market Place in Springdale. Claire threw her biggest tantrum in public to date and I am positive that every eyeball in the restaurant was on us as I hurried her to the bathroom for a diaper change. A new diaper and a swaddle later, she was on her best behavior. We enjoyed getting to see how much the boys have grown and they had “baby fever”, desperately wanting to hold her. We promised that they would have their turn come Christmas. We forgot our camera at Grandma’s earlier that day, so pictures will have to wait until December as well….

Thursday afternoon we had a stream of visitors coming by for lunch and to meet Claire. Several of my friends from high school (Carrie, Jill, Melissa and Kristin) dropped by as well as some of my mom’s friends (Connie, Beverly, and JoAnnie). We didn’t get a picture of everyone, due to Claire’s fussiness (the girl was hungry - AGAIN!) but here are a few favorites:

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We got to spend some quality time with Eric’s best friend’s family on Friday. We had yet to see Jonna’s growing baby bump and Julie’s newest daughter, not-so-little baby Leah,. We chatted all things baby related and Claire slept, ate, and pooped on Jonna - in that order. Welcome to the wonderful world of motherhood! :) Below is a picture of Barbara and Elenna meeting Claire and  one of all the girls, minus Claire who was probably taking a walk outside with Daddy.

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Friday evening we had dinner with Brian, Sarah, McKenna and their new little one, Haley. Haley is only 3 months older than Claire, but she’s about 4 times the size of her! We know it won’t be long before Claire is just as big, but right now it’s hard to imagine. It was fun to trade baby stories and we look forward to seeing them again at Christmas.

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After church on Sunday, one of my good friends from college, Elizabeth, drove down from her new home in Tulsa to meet Claire. I was thrilled to see her and we managed to sneak away for a quick shopping trip while Daddy watched Claire nap. Right before Elizabeth headed back home, Claire woke up and we took a couple of quick photos. They look slightly awkward, but by no fault of Elizabeth. Claire looses her “cuddle factor” quite quickly when she’s wrapped up like a burrito (her favorite way to sleep)!

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You can view the full gallery of photos taken while in Arkansas on our site under photo galleries or by  clicking here. There is also a new gallery of photos taken during Claire’s fifth week - a bit old now, but with the trip we got slightly sidetracked.

Look for a BIG post celebrating Claire’s 2 month birthday and all the news about her growth, likes/dislikes and more “firsts” - coming as soon as I can find a few spare moments. :)